Booooo… (>_


Booooo… (>_

"I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel." - Maya Angelou
What should I do if my ex-bf didn't give me a chance to explain myself to him. Like he put all the blame on me. I want us to be okay again but every time I talk to him, we always end up fighting. What should I do now? I want him back in my life. :(


Ahhhh, you sound just like a friend of mine right now who is having pretty much the exact same problem. I’ll give you the abridged version of what I told her:

He’s not going to be back in your life until he wants to be.

Now, before I forget to say this, he might be feeding off the attention, the arguments, and the drama surrounding your relationship and breakup. Some people are like that. I’m like that. Occasionally, it feels good to be miserable and frustrated. The clue that leads me to thinking he’s like that is the fact that he is responding to you when you talk to him. If he really wanted nothing to do with you, he doesn’t have to respond. If he’s that kind of person and this is the case with him, stop talking to him.

In fact, just stop talking to him anyway. Like I bolded above, you’re not going to get through to him even if he isn’t the type of person who is feeding off of the negative energy. I know you like him and you love him and such things, but this is the bare bones truthful advice I have for you.

I’m almost hesitating to tell you this last part because it’s contrary to my personal opinion about the situation, but if you really feel that you need him back, you should stop trying to talk to him. Give him the silent treatment even if he chats you up first. For some reason, people can’t handle being on the receiving end of the silent treatment, and they cave pretty much every time. After a few times of him trying to contact you, throw him a bone and tell him you’ll only talk to him if he gives you a chance to explain yourself.

But also, did he put all the blame on you because you were to blame for whatever the problem is? I’m not sure, but it’s definitely something for you to contemplate.


why was it so easy for you to let me go?
I still can’t stop thinking about you.. god, I miss you.







Jacob’s Well - Wimberley, Texas

hey kids let’s all go jump into the pits of hell

This is the scariest thing I’ve ever seen.

People have actually died in Jacob’s Well, but not just from jumping, you’re too buoyant to really go down far.

But Jacob’s Well draws a lot of scuba divers, and some of them have gotten lost and run out of air. Some of the bodies have never even been found, because the underground river that feeds Jacob’s Well is so complex. I find that terrifying.

I’ve been there. You have to be careful because coming back up from too far and you get stuck under rocks trying to find the surface.

Wow look at that giant hole of NOPE.

I’ve skinny dipped here! And watched scuba divers go in. It’s so badass

Gotta do it one day.


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